Spice Up the Bedroom with Essential Oils

Love is in the air and Valentine’s Day is near! Valentine’s Day, one of my favorite days, is a special day that celebrates the beautiful bond you share with your romantic partner. It’s a time to celebrate the love and commitment shared between one another. Treat your beloved and yourself to a warm, seductive evening at home with the help of my favorite romantic essential oils from our Top 18 Essential oil set.


Romance surrounds us this time of year and certain essential oils have aphrodisiac properties that are great for promoting romance. Sure, soft candlelight and romantic music are important, but you’ll also want to set the mood using scents. If you are looking to add a little extra romance to the atmosphere for the perfect Valentine’s Day, here are a few of my favorite essential oils that are sure to spice up your night.

The best essential oils for the bedroom are:

  1. Clary Sage
  2. Patchouli
  3. Ylang Ylang
  4. Lavender
  5. Geranium
  6. Cinnamon
  7. Frankincense


Clary Sage has a distinctive, herbaceous, earthy, slightly floral scent. It is used to promote hormonal balance within the body to help those experiencing low libido. Additionally, clary sage is very relaxing and has some sedative properties that allow you to release additional tension and stress so you can enjoy Valentine’s Day with lots of pleasure!

A mild sedative, Patchouli slows breathing and is one of the most relaxing, grounding, and earthy scents in aromatherapy. Deep and mysterious, it’s a powerful attraction oil, used historically to relieve frigidity and impotence. It stimulates the sex glands, increasing libido and sexual response.

The lightly floral aroma of Ylang Ylang, also known as “flower of flowers” is prized for it’s calming, relaxing properties. This essential oil has a unique ability to affect the hormones needed to build a strong sex drive. Considered as one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs, ylang ylang increases libido and attraction between lovers.

Lavender's potent, floral scent balances hormone levels while harboring a peaceful scent that is often associated with love. It creates a relaxing setting that will calm you both to enjoy a relaxing night together.

Geranium's sweet floral scent is a must-have for Valentine’s Day as it mimics the scent of a rose and can inspire peacefulness and calmness. Geranium elevates the emotions of love, balances negative emotions, and gets the blood flowing!

Cinnamon essential oil helps with intimacy issues and boosts sexual energy for a romantic night you won’t forget. Also known as the oil of sexual harmony, cinnamon oil is sure to bring some warmth and spice into your relationship.

Frankincense sweet, woody aroma is sure to help you unwind and relax. The calmness and serenity of frankincense essential oil stimulates the senses and desires, helping to unleash your sensuality.

We recommend diffusing these oils in one of your favorite Radha Beauty diffusers or taking it a step further to using the oils in a sensual massage. Please keep in mind the potency of the oils may cause irritation if applied directly to your skin. Be sure to dilute any essential oils in a carrier base such as Fractionated Coconut, Argan, Jojoba or Rosehip oil. Use a diluted mixture of 2 drops of carrier oil to every 1 drop of essential oil, and you’re all set. Your mixture can be applied, ready for a relaxing and invigorating massage!

There’s a wonderful spirit of love in the air and with the essential oils listed above - you’re on your way to a night of romance. Remember, love blooms best in a warm and relaxed environment. Be sure to have fun and be creative, mix and match if you’d like; choose a scent that works best for you and your loved one. Set the mood this Valentine’s Day with Radha Beauty!